Get Over Him
As time went on I realized that I was no longer in love with him but instead the idea of him and what could have been. When you read these tips its coming from someone who knows what you are going through but also what makes it easier. I only wish that I had known all these things before because it would have saved me a lot of nights curled up on the sofa with a bottle of wine and bar of chocolate, Although you donʼt need a break up in order to find a reason for a night in like that! On a serious note these are the most important things I learnt along the way, I can only hope they can help you as much as they helped me.
“You canʼt drive a car looking in the rear view mirror; you have to look
forward to go forward”
Whether you want to admit it or not we have all stalked our ex, even though at this
point you are unable to let go checking up on him will only drive you insane. Stalking
him and seeing that he may have moved on to another girl will only make you more
upset, and you will only end up comparing yourself in every way which will end with you
stalking him even more hoping his new relationship will be over. You can spend
minutes, hours, even days over thinking your situation trying to figure out where it all
went wrong, or you can leave the broken pieces behind and work on fixing yourself. So
the first thing you need to do is probably the hardest.
Delete and block his number so then you donʼt stare at your phone screen all day waiting for him to call or message you first, because everything happens for a reason and you are meant for better things. You canʼt change what happened in your past, this is so you make sure you change your future”. You may slip and end up checking but just remember that horrible feeling you get seeing that his life is moving on, and use that as motivation to not go back there again.