As you might know, there are many variations of teachings regarding the personality
quadrants out there all written by psychologists and experts in the field. This book is not a manual to self-enlightenment.
The information here covers two main points:
• Understand which personality quadrant you fall into
• Understand how to deal with your date or the person you want to date
When I first started dating, I didn’t know how to react to her – the object of my affections.
I had no experience because I never went on a date before, and I thought that the way
to win over my date’s affections was to please her. It sounded like a fantastic idea, but I
made a big mistake: I saw her through the filter of my own personality quadrant and
I made assumptions that what I like and what I need is what she likes and what
What happened afterwards was one disaster after another because I kept doing the
things she didn’t like which I thought would be something which I did like. I learnt that I
needed to adjust the way I communicate. Unfortunately, things got so bad that we
broke up but the lesson taught me how to deal with people better from then on.
Enough about me! Let’s move on to the juicy stuff now.